What makes you happy? | Why Does G-d Test Us?Today is the joyful holiday of Purim - as jam-packed with mitzvahs as the special three-cornered hamantaschen cookies we eat to remember how the evil Haman, who wanted to destroy the Jewish people, was tricked and defeated. We hear the great story of courage in the Book of Esther, give gifts to the poor, exchange baskets of goodies, and eat the Purim feast. One day last week, I was having a conversation with some 3rd grade girls. Their teacher brought them to the library where I run my creativity program and asked, "We're studying trickster tales. Could you please tell the girls a Jewish trickster tale?" A Jewish trickster tale? That's an unusual request. I love to encourage children to figure things out so I asked the girls, "What would be a Jewish trickster tale?" "Purim!" shouted one of the girls, "Because the evil villain Haman was turned into a cookie!" What a cute answer, I thought and then, we proceeded to have such a profound conversation, I really wanted to share it with you. You see, Haman was a very bitter man. He had everything a man could want in those times. He was rich, had a multitude of sons, and was promoted to the highest position next to the king - but none of this made Haman happy because he lacked one thing. Mordechai the Jew would not bow down to him. Because Haman only focused on what he lacked, he ignored all of the sweetness in his life and his life came to a bitter end. But do we eat bitter radishes to remember Haman? No! Just like the little girl said, we eat sweet cookies to remember to focus on the sweetness of life, not the bitterness and to appreciate what we have, not on what we lack. Then, I asked the girls, "So, tell me, who is the Trickster in this Jewish trickster tale?" and they all answered, "HASHEM!!!" Yes, out of the mouths of babes - G-d is the cosmic Trickster, hidden in the Book of Esther, and often hidden in our lives, but always bringing out our highest good. And then another little girl said one of the most astonishingly wise things I've ever heard. One girl raised her hand and said, "I wonder why G-d tests us when He already knows what we're going to do?" And her friend immediately responded, "To prove to us that we can do it!" And that, my friend, is the reason for all of the tests, challenges and bitterness of life - may you never know from any pain or sorrow! When we are faced with a test, just like Queen Esther, Mordechai, and all of the Jewish people were faced with a life and death test, it is to prove to us that we have the inner strength to meet our challenge. CLICK HERE for a free sample Soul Adventure from my new book, "The Secret Art of Talking to G-d," and find out how YOU can help with this holy project! |
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Courtenay
3/5/2015 11:49:55 am
Thank you so much for this lovely story! It's funny because it seems that regardless of what is happening in my life, each and every time I read one of your blog posts or soul tips, there's always a blessedly insightful, absolutely perfect message that feels totally meant for me. Thank you for being such a blessing and thank you for sharing your gift with the world!
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3/5/2015 12:58:30 pm
Thank you Courtenay. Your words really touched me and encourage me to continue! May your year be filled with happiness!
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